Even though Facebook has upgraded its privacy settings these last couple years, our online networks are expanding and the “friend” line has become blurred. Who really has five thousand “friends?” How well do we really know everyone we’re “friends” with on Facebook? We might want to reconsider before we next post that we’re leaving for a week in Mexico or that we’re excited to visit our parents in our hometowns for Thanksgiving weekend. After all, as scary as it sounds, such vacation status updates and mobile upload photos can be translated by certain “friends” or conniving strangers (depending on our privacy settings and who can read our FB walls) to read: Please Rob Me!
A different angle on this topic is whether we find vacation announcements to be boasting or not. Does it depend on how well you know the person? Does it depend on how frequently he or she posts on Facebook? Does it depend on his or her choice of words and presentation of such a public announcement? Have “bragging” and “sharing” become oddly synonymous in our techno world? More so, is it all that much extra work to simply update a few close friends-and-family via a private message when on vacation instead of blabbbing to everyone in our online social networks?
Let us know what “you” (not “u”) think, Blabbbers. And, no matter if you’re a Vacation Poster, a Foursquare addict or a neurotically private person, we wish you and yours a great, safe holiday weekend! 😉